Thursday, March 31, 2011
It's better to keep your mouth shut and be thought a fool than to open it and leave no doubt.--Mark Twain
However big the fool, there is always a bigger fool to admire him. -- Nicolas Boileau-Despréaux
[Politicians] never open their mouths without subtracting from the sum of human knowledge. -- Thomas Reed
[Sadly] Sometimes one likes foolish people for their folly, better than wise people for their wisdom. -- Elizabeth Gaskell
There is more hope for a stupid fool than for someone who speaks without thinking. -- Proverbs 29:20
The way of a fool is right in his own eyes, but a wise man listens to advice. -- Proverbs 12:15
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Tuesday, March 29, 2011
Family
Papa |
My grandpa (Starr Pop) holding his great-great-granddaughter, Karis. (Fall'04) |
Five Generations |
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Four Generations |
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Misha Rose - just born! (Oct'05) |
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Karis Lei - just born! (July'04) |
A family picture in front of my parent's house Oct'09 |
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Saturday, March 26, 2011
Our Four Grandchildren!
Many have asked me when I was going to post some pictures of our grandchildren. "Soon, I promise," I kept saying. So here you are. I've finally posted a few of my favorites.
Misha, Elijah and Ella Pelikan are the children of our first son, Jesse, and his lovely wife Elina.
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Our newest addition, 1-year-old "bella" Ella |
-- Author Unknown
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Ella's big sister, 5-year-old Misha |
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Handsome 3-year-old Elijah |
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Pretty Cousin Karis |
Karis captured all of our hearts!
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6-year-old Karis |
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More like sisters than cousins! |
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Misha with her brother Elijah |
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Christmas Cousins |
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Friday, March 25, 2011
Spring Ahead in Italy
That God once loved a garden we learn in Holy writ.
And seeing gardens in the Spring I well can credit it
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Thursday, March 24, 2011
Great Idea For Wet Boots & Shoes!

The rainy days of April and May sure mess up the carpet with muddy, caked on foot prints. (or in our case here in Italy, the tile, which then becomes very slippery!) This seems like a great solution.
*note that on my side-bar I have a link to an *organizing tip of the day* from the same website. Just for fun! Check back from time to time to see what other interesting things I add for our enjoyment. =)
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Tuesday, March 22, 2011
Grocery Shopping in Italy
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Trash can for the gloves, scale/sticker printing machine |
The amazing thing is you did this whole thing in complete silence, not knowing a word of Italian; or, as in my case, starting to be able to read a little Italian.
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Monday, March 21, 2011
March Equinox & Father's Day in Italy
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St. Joseph and the Christ Child |
Festa del Papa, the Italian name for Father's Day, is celebrated on March 19, St. Joseph's Feast Day in Italy. Households prepare traditional spreads of special Italian breads and cookies. This is the day when families show their gratitude to their fathers with favors and gifts. Here's how to celebrate Father's Day in Italy:
1. Start your Dad's day with a delicious breakfast. Prepare Zeppole, the most common pastry treat for Father's Day in Italy. Gather all the ingredients required for the dish in advance so that you can spend most of your time with dad.
2. Serve the breakfast on a tray decorated with attractive ribbons and a bunch of red roses. The red rose is the traditional flower of Father's Day. Little extra efforts such as this will fascinate your father.
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Saturday, March 19, 2011
Help Yourself to Happiness
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Japanese Kanji for - Happiness |
For the happiness you give away
~ click post title to donate to the American Red Cross/Pacific Tsunami - Japan Earthquake disaster relief efforts ~
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Thursday, March 10, 2011
Happy Birthday, Rondi!
You so easily fit with all of us now ~ a special warmth and closeness that grows stronger through the years!
Happy Birthday, Rondi ~ May God Grant You Many Years!
With much love . . .
Mom & Dad+
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Tuesday, March 8, 2011
Happy Birthday, Ella
We wish we could be there to celebrate with you, but we hope that we will have lots of chances to do that in our future.
It seems like it wasn't that long ago that your mommy and daddy were in the hospital parking lot, unable to make it into the hospital ~ since you decided to make your appearance a little too quickly ~ and daddy delivered you himself . . . in the car!! Wow! What a day!
So here you are one year later, as cute as ever, making us miss you even more!
We love seeing you on Skype and are saving up lots of hugs and kisses for when we see you in person again!
Love, and many, many years!
Mimi & Papa
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Thursday, March 3, 2011
The Amazing Skidboot - This is why I love Australian Cattle Dogs!
Knowing how much we love our own 9 year-old Australian Cattle Dog, Sherman, our daughter-in-law's mother, Lynne, shared this amazing video with me. As you will see, there is no way I couldn't post it and share it with everyone! It's very special! Skidboot died in the spring of 2007, when he was 15 year's old, but as his owner David said, "He's had a wonderful life!"
This breed is so smart, as you can see. David Hartwig is a living example of humility and integrity, constantly reminding us that we should try to find the joy in all that we do! Also proof that we don't always know how the Lord will use us!
"Life is too precious to be upset!"
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Wednesday, March 2, 2011
Happy Birthday, Jesse!
In honor of Jesse Pelikan's 37th birthhday today, I want to show this very funny video about cats. Jesse and Elina have an adorable cat named Heidi, so I think they'll get a kick out of this too!
Joy and Laughter, Jess! Happy Birthday!
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Monday, February 14, 2011
The True Meaning of Valentine's Day
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St. Valentine the Martyr |
Permit me to reprint a portion of an article written last February 14, 2010 [Sunday] - Bulletin 15, Volume XLVII
Love and Forgiveness
Written by the Very Rev. Vladimir Berzonsky
"The Lord is slow to anger, abounding in steadfast love and forgiving sin and rebellion" (Numbers 14:18)
"All too rare that Forgiveness Sunday opening onto the Great Lent falls on the same day when our nation celebrates Valentine's Day -- and so serendipitous to merge those great spiritual virtues into one. Several legends surround St. Valentine, who is as elusive as our beloved St. Nicholas and almost as beloved -- at least in his legacy of love. Let's take the best known tale. It records him as a priest or maybe bishop imprisoned in Rome by Emperor Claudius II, and condemned to execution [as written above]. His meals were served by the daughter of the jailer, and it seems that he left on his tray for the girl to take away a brief message signed: from your Valentine.
To the extent that myth is true, it speaks to both love and forgiveness. Not the passion we think of as love, certainly not the sentiments of all the valentines sent on this day between lovers, but a natural affection, perhaps gratitude for some kindness or sympathy from an innocent maiden for an old gentleman who would soon be put to death. Assuming the saint had imbibed the attributes of the Lord whom had given His life in service, he was slow to anger, abounding in steadfast love, and forgiving his jailer, the emperor and of course the girl who brought his meals. Is it possible that he could forgive them without loving them? Hardly. Conversely, could he love them as sinners without forgiving them? Again, not so."
“Love is always patient and kind; it is never jealous, love is never boastful or conceited; it is never rude or selfish; it does not take offense, and is not resentful. Love takes no pleasure in other people’s sins but delights in the truth; it is always ready to excuse, to trust, to hope, and to endure whatever comes. Love does not come to an end.” 1 Corinthians 13:4-8
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Tuesday, February 1, 2011
Happy New Year?
That's right! Better late that never, I say . . . Happy New Year!
It' hard to believe that this time last year Papa was miles away beginning his New Year busily taking care of 15 chaplains in Afghanistan! We were more than half-way through his year-long deployment, but the Holidays were making it drag along for both of us, for sure! This year, however, was so much different. It's been so great to be together, and even though there is a great hole in our hearts from missing our family miles across the ocean, it's hard to find the words to describe how great it is just to be with one another again!
We welcomed in the 2011 ~ together this time ~ in the most amazing way! We've never seen such fireworks [in person] in our lives! Of course there are extravaganza-type fireworks at Disneyland or the Rose Bowl in Pasadena, California, but this was different! And from our own terrace in Pozzuoli, Italy, to boot. Since we moved in, we've been hearing from lots of people, "Just wait until New Year's Eve! You will not even believe the fireworks display put on by the Italians!" And let's just say, the Italians did not disappoint!
We could see a panorama of fireworks displayed from one side of the Bay of Pozzuoli to the other! We couldn't even count them all!
At the last minute we invited some friends and their children over to celebrate with us, but we really didn't have any idea what we were about to witness. HAD WE KNOWN, we would have had a full blown
firework's-viewing party from our terrace *this year*! We had no idea what we were about to see.
As I was writing this post, I asked Papa what did he do to ring in the New Year when he was in Afghanistan, and he says he barely remembers New Year's Eve last year. He thinks the guys in Afghanistan gathered around the TV to watch the New Year's Eve ball countdown in Time Square with very little fanfare. I do know that he called me to say Happy New Year when it was just midnight and turning to the New Year in North Carolina, but it's not surprising that the whole thing is a bit of a blur for him. He was in the midst of some very busy planning at the time.
There are a number of things that I want to *blog* about at the moment, but the time flies by and quickly slips away from me without a word on the page! BAD girl! Nevertheless, here are just a few of the highlights:
- We had the opportunity to meet our very best friends in the whole wide world, Lance & Maureen, in Rome, Italy, for the day on the 4th of January!
- In the past month we also traversed an extremely high mountain to tour the Abbey of Montecassino jus
t south of Rome, which is the monastery established by St. Benedict in 529 AD.
Later that same day we visited an agritourismo, which is a restaurant that's in an old Italian farmhouse and uses 80% of their own produce, wine and meats. It was very charming and delicious!
- I was waiting to hear if my Level I Italian Course at Texas College would have enough people in it (9) to continue. I just heard that the class is a “go” and on Tuesday and Thursday mornings I have officially set out on my journey to learn Italian! Yikes!
Perhaps William Blake may have been experiencing similar thoughts when he put pen to paper those many years ago as he contemplated the coming of spring . . .
The Spring
William Blake (1783)
O thou with dewy locks, who lookest down
Through the clear windows of the morning, turn
Thine angel eyes upon our western isle,
Which in full choir hails thy approach, O Spring!
The hills tell one another, and the listening
Valleys hear; all our longing eyes are turn’d
Up to thy bright pavilions: issue forth
And let thy holy feet visit our clime!
Come o’er the eastern hills, and let our winds
Kiss thy perfumèd garments; let us taste
Thy morn and evening breath; scatter thy pearls
Upon our lovesick land that mourns for thee.
O deck her forth with thy fair fingers; pour
Thy soft kisses on her bosom; and put
Thy golden crown upon her languish’d head,
Whose modest tresses are bound up for thee.
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Saturday, December 11, 2010
Roman Holiday - Part I
Most birthdays come and go and we mark them with the traditional singing of “Happy Birthday”; friends and family give cards and gifts; we remember fondly the day we were born and the “lore” surrounding the day. In my case, my mother has many wonderful stories about my day. One of my favorite is of me being born on my exact due-date! Normally it wouldn’t be that unusual, except for the fact that in her naiveté, my Mother (to-be) informed my (soon-to-be) Daddy that since it was so far from their house to the hospital (practically all the way across the Mohave Desert to Edwards AFB), and that since “the baby” (me) would be born today (after all, it was her due-date), she had better drive into work with him (even though she wasn’t even in labor yet!) Ha! And . . . what do you know - I was born that very day! Right on time! Amazing!
Well, fast forward to this year, and we were looking forward to making my 55th birthday something special. After all, I was turning 55 and I was born in 55 – 1955 that is! (A shared birthday with the original Disneyland, by the way). So, guess what we did? We just took a simple day-trip to ROME – that’s all! Now, how cool is that! I’ve wanted to see the Colosseum in Rome, Italy, for as long as I can remember. Not to mention the many, many other famous sites in the city. We knew that we could only go for the day, but it would be worth it for our first peek at the famous city. There is plenty of time for travel to this magnificent city while we’re stationed here in Naples over the next few years, to see the myriad of other places on our list. It’s only an hour away if you take the fast train and two if you have a little more time and want to save some money.
Our trip started very early the morning of November 12th. Friday shouldn’t be as crowded as the coming weekend, we thought, and it was still close enough to my birthday that it felt like a celebration. Phil took care of purchasing the train tickets, as well as the bus tickets needed to get to the train station beforehand, so all we had to do was get a few things together the evening before and drive our car to the same place Phil goes to work every day. We commented that it seemed strange not having to pack *anything* at all for a trip to Rome, and even more strange that we’d be returning that very evening to our own house! It all still seems so very surreal. After driving to the base, which is next to the airport and the bus station, and then taking the bus to the train station; and then enjoying our leisurely, very fast trip from Naples to Rome on the train, we arrived at the Rome train station by 11:00 AM. Not really sure of what to do exactly, other than wanting to see the Colosseum, we set out on foot to get our bearings.
We quickly realized that we needed a map! So, we bought a map (Can you believe we
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Thursday, December 2, 2010
Fair-weather Blogger
"A *fair-weather friend* is the type who is always there when times are good but forgets about
you when things get difficult or problems crop up."
On the 12th of November, the day before my last blog entry,
Papa and I travelled for the day - and for my birthday - to Rome! It's less than
an hour by train and it was the perfect way to mark my 55th birthday -
unforgettable! On the way home, however, as we were waiting for the train in
Rome at the train station for our return train, my throat began to hurt more
and more by the minute! I found myself unable to swallow very well, and in dire
need of a throat lozenge (a bit problematic with the language barrier). By the
time we reached our home in Pozzuolli, I was genuinely sick! Fever and all! For
the next two weeks I was rarely out of the house, doing my best to kick the bad
cold! Every-once-in-awhile I would say to myself, “Since I’m just lying around
the house doing *nothing* but coughing and sneezing and feeling yukky - I
should work on my blog” . . . still I couldn’t bring myself to write anything
feeling the way I did! But . . . once I did start to feel a little better,
well, you can imagine, wa-haayyy too much catching up to do!
even when he had a sore throat." (from Stuart Little by E.B. White)
The good news, I am 90% better and able to engage in all the
activities going on over here for the Holidays. Not to mention finishing up the
*un*packing and the putting away of our household goods!! “Almost there . . .
almost there . . .”
I’ll blog soon about our trip to Rome and finally getting our
second car and me *driving* in Italy for the first time! Just wanted to check
in though, especially for those who’ve been asking, “Where are you?” . . . with
not a little concern in their *voices*!
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Saturday, November 13, 2010
It's your birthday today and we celebrate it with you!
We hope you enjoy your day.
God grant you many, many years!
Love,
Mom & Dad
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Thursday, November 11, 2010
Veteran's Day ~ 2010
2nd MEB Memorial Service ~ April ' 2010 |
~ Amen.
* Fr. Philip [a.k.a. Chaplain Pelikan] said this prayer this morning at a special steak and egg breakfast provided to service members and their families on the base by "Chefs from the Valley." They are a volunteer group of business men and women from the San Joaquin Valley in California who brought 3,500 steaks - paid for out of their own pocket - and all designed to honor the troops and their families on this Veterans' Day!
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Happy Birthday Marine Corps!

We are proud to have been associated with them for 10 of the 21 years that we’ve been in the Navy Chaplain Corps.
Happy Birthday Marines and
Semper Fidelis
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Monday, November 8, 2010
Birthday, Balloons & the Blues

We've had, and will have, a number of birthday celebrations during these fall and winter months. Funny, I thought I'd be okay [sort of] with all of it. But it's really hitting me now, and not really turning out that way. As I see pictures and read the posts and emails about all the festivities, it tugs at my heartstrings more than I realized it would.
75 . . . 55 . . . 35 . . . 5 . . . and these are just the birthdays ending in the number 5 this fall/winter! Super-special years, and aching to be there celebrating the day these specal people in my family were born! And there are others!
What's to be done . . .
Papa and I watched Walt Disney's, Pollyanna, the other night, to see if would help cheer us up - definitely one of my all-time favorite movies! In that movie, Pollyanna, played by Haley Mills, is a cheerful young orphan girl who goes to live with her aunt Polly, in a small town after the tragic death of her missionary parents. She is somehow able to bring the love of life to all the people in the town though a view of life she learned from her father. He taught to her through a game called, "The Glad Game" and by the time she must leave them through a tragedy of her own, she has transformed the community with her incredible will to see the good side of even the worst situations and brings about the betterment of all those around her.
I came across a simple version of "The Glad Game" and thought it might be enjoyable this Holiday Season:
"The Glad Game"
Inspired by the classic, Pollyanna, by Eleanor H. Porter.
Simple Solution
"The very name “Pollyanna” has come to mean someone who is eternally upbeat and optimistic, who spreads positivity and good will wherever she goes. Before you decide that such unremittingly cheerful behavior is truly nauseating and deserves a good smack, think of this: people who take time every day to count their blessings are truly happier (and live longer) than those who don’t.
So spread a little good cheer in the New Year with this great game that helps you to focus on the glad, not the bad. Your heart--and everyone who knows you--will be grateful. It only takes a minute.
You can play this game when you’re driving in your car, or taking a walk, or sitting at your computer--pretty much under any circumstances.
Start small: just think of ONE THING that you’re glad for. Maybe it’s the taste of the special coffee that Aunt Ruth from Winnetka sent you for Christmas. Maybe it’s the fact that the holidays are over. Perhaps you have a new love in your life, or an interesting new project to work on. Or you could be glad for your family, or your dog or cat. Really think about whatever it is for a moment. Allow yourself to smile over it. Feel your heart open and glow with gratitude for whatever it is.
That’s it. But tomorrow, try thinking of two things you’re really, truly glad for. Expand the field of your gratitude every day. Really take time to appreciate the many many blessings you enjoy. You’re alive: you have the capacity to be a beneficial and positive presence on the planet. You are needed--or you wouldn’t be here. Enjoy this life that you have been given! And be glad."
I'm already feeling "glad"!

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Monday, October 25, 2010
Happy Birthday US Navy!
Navy Ball ~ 2010 |
This was the original legislation, out of which the Continental Navy grew and as such constitutes the birth certificate of the United States Navy.
"Over the course of The War of Independence, The Continental Navy sent to sea more than fifty armed vessels of various types." The Continental Navy began the proud tradition carried on today by our United States Navy, and whose birthday we celebrate each year in October."
This past Saturday night, we, CDR & Mrs. Philip J. Pelikan, attended the 235th Navy Ball in Naples, Italy! And rather than trying to manage taking a nice picture when we got there, we took this picture at the house just before we left (in our repaired car - by the way - ['all dressed up and somewhere to go'] navigating the narrow road just fine).
We had a great time! Papa was honored to give the Invocation during the ceremonial portion of the evening. In attendance were six Admirals, one General, a plethora of senior officers and distinguished guests - including the US Consul General and over 360 in attendance (mostly US Navy). We enjoyed meeting quite a few new people and even some that we've known in the past. The food was delicious, the band was exceptional, and the venue a complete success!
Ciao, Bella! Mimi
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